Do you really need dental insurance?

Hi EnLifers! So, this week’s post is about something my husband and I debate over each year – whether we should buy dental insurance. The intention is to have it in case we need to have any major work done outside of the preventive cleanings and x-rays that our medical insurance provides. So what do you do? Each year, I’ve done the math to see which would make more financial sense and I’ll share my process and an example here.

  1. Check with the dental provider to see what dental plans they accept. Ours only accepted two, so that made it easy.
  2. Identify the bi-weekly premiums to calculate how much it would cost for the year. In our case, I’m looking at family plans since we have children, so those prices will be reflected in the example.
  3. Think of any dental procedures you predict you will need. A little secret, I’m not the best at oral health though I’ve gotten better over the years, so I count on the possibility of a cavity or two. But think crowns, periodontal cleanings etc. Most times, you can even plan your expenses as the dentist will usually inform you that you need something done, so I usually ask for their fee schedule and any discounts they offer for self-pay.  In our case, it was for periodontal cleanings and maintenance this past year.
  4. Find out what the dental insurance company will pay for your identified procedure. This coverage can range from full payment (100%) to a low of 30% of costs. It’s important to take into account the cost to have insurance PLUS the cost of the actual procedure under insurance.
  Insurance Biweekly Cost Insurance Yearly Cost Insurance Co-insurance/co-pay for procedure with insurance Cost of procedure with Insurance Total Cost with Insurance Procedure Out of Pocket Cost w/o Insurance
Dental Plan A $52.35 $1361 Plan pays 60%, so out of pocket will be 40% 631 $1931 $1435*includes 10% self-pay discount)
Dental Plan B $34.51 $897 Plan pays 55%, so oop will be 45% 710 $1608 $1435
  1. In our case, it was cheaper to pay out of pocket rather than pay for dental insurance in both cases. Now, of course there are other considerations as well. What if you have something else come up that might be covered under insurance? This is quite possible, but hasn’t been an issue for me so far. The other thing that some would point out is the tax savings of the most health plans as they are usually deducted before taxes. A good point, but the way I get around that is using a health savings plan which is also deducted pre-taxes.

So there you have it- a simple way to determine from a strictly financial perspective if you really need dental insurance. However, I totally understand that some people just like having insurance to make them feel more secure, which is understandable. However if you want to take a walk on the wild side…. I’m your girl! (not really, I’m fairly risk averse). In next week’s post, I’ll cover something I found out about this year –dental discount plans! I purchased one and will track throughout the year whether it has been useful or not for our upcoming needs. As usual, continue to find things that bring enjoyment to your life! EnLife!

MK

Family and Finances! OH MY!

Hi Enlifers! Hope your 2018 is off to a great start! Now that we’re all hopefully still buzzing from holiday cheer, I’m going to sober it up a bit! Ha! Just kidding – but seriously, something that has been on my mind lately and that is how to balance people, namely family and finances. This is an area I struggle with majorly. As the first to graduate (and actually the only in addition to an advanced degree in four generations), I have been able to earn more than my family in general. I am grateful for their influences and encouragement when I was younger and I have a great desire to help my family. This has evolved over the years. In the beginning, I usually lived out of state, so I wasn’t able to offer hands on help, so I ended up helping mostly financially. However, what started out as being cheerful giving turned into resentful obligation as I began to not agree with some of my family’s financial decisions.  It took me years to free myself of “success guilt” and to only honor financial requests that aligned with my financial beliefs and spirit.  Fast forward and I moved back to the area I grew up. It comes with pros and cons. On one hand, it’s great to have easy access to family for emergencies and just in general. However, it’s a lot easier to say no when you’re kinda far away. The particular situation I’m in now is letting a family member reside with me while they try to find a place to live; however what was supposed to be a couple of months has now turned into 8 months and counting. To be honest, at this point I feel this person is taking advantage of our generosity and kindness, but I always have a hard time balancing the people first and then money thing especially when you feel like someone is taking advantage of you. So I figured I’d brainstorm here on EnLife.  I have thought about all of the various tough situations I’ve been in involving family and finances and narrowed it down to 3 things you need in order to successfully balance family and finances. Those three things are empathy, expectations, and execution.

  1. Empathy – in talking with various friends, one of the things that resonated with me was love. To express real concern and love to the family member instead of judgment and frustration.
  2. Expectations- work out mutually acceptable clear, fair expectations of the agreement and boundaries with the family member. This is actually best done ahead of the financial transaction, but can still be done as a reset if things have gone left.
  3. Execution – execution is really about respect of those boundaries and expectations. If the family member that you are assisting financially is not respecting the boundaries and expectations, then it is more than ok to enforce those boundaries yourself. This is generally when things can go horribly “wrong” and can result in feeling guilty if the family member wants to continue to overstep boundaries. However, I’m learning that it is important stick to those boundaries or else, those things that I mentioned before: resentment, frustration, etc all set in and then sometimes people say or do drastic things they don’t mean or intend.

I could go on and on regarding family and finances and I’m sure there will be posts in the future dedicated to various family nuances and relationships (e.g. couples, nuclear family, etc). In the meantime, I hope these tidbits have served as some nuggets to help your EnLife in this new year! What nuggets do you have to share in regards to balancing family and finances?

 

Goals, Goals, Goals!!!

Happy New Year EnLifers! As we get 2018 underway, of course the thought of resolutions and goals are prominent. I’ve been thinking about what my goals will be for 2018. The thing is that I’ve had a hard time really honing in on them and seems a bit overwhelming.  I’ve been thinking about what it is I’m ultimately trying to do and then it hit me. The word intention. I am focused on setting the goals and resolutions, but many times there are just goals but sometimes our goals and resolutions are really about life changes. Habits that we’d like to change and ultimately acquire different habits that improve our lives. So I had to really think about what I want in life and be very intentional about it. If this past year has shown me anything, it is that time is moving seemingly fast! Like seriously, WHERE did 2017 go?! In order to accomplish what I want in the time I want, I have to not only have and set goals, but set up my life to be very intentional about what I’m doing and why. I’ve thought about how I can do that and these things come to mind-

  1. Ask myself overall, what qualities and/or attributes do I want in my life on a regular basis now and in the future?
  2. If I don’t possess these qualities or attributes now, what’s the gap?
  3. How can I realistically get there in the context of my current life. In other words, how can I break the gap down into manageable pieces?
  4. Pick 1-3 of those pieces and be very intentional and focused on those things for this upcoming year. In other words make some goals!

How did this work for me? Here’s a quick overview:

  1. Life attributes I desire: peace, love, health, and freedom. When I think of those things, I always imagine me relaxing on a beach watching the sunset with my husband and 2 boys and not having a care in the world. THE ultimate.
  2. The gap – I have some level of these attributes in my life at times, but not on a regular basis. I’ll spare you the details-that’s another post for later.
  3. Gap breakdown – This took me the longest to work through, but in the interest of time, I came to what those attributes mean for my future self and my current self. Health and financial freedom are two huge things for my future self that I have to put in work now to have in the future. Peace and Love are things that I’d like to cultivate more of in the now and they ultimately affect my overall health as well.
  4. Goals- Ultimately, I decided that I would explore each area and have one goal around each intention. Let’s see how this goes! Peace: I will meditate and connect with God more. Love: I will spend more focused time with my loved ones meaning I will stop trying to multitask and just stop what I am doing to give more focused time even if it’s just a few minutes of hard core presence!  Health: Eat more healthy home cooked meals and kick my fast food habit. Freedom: Save more and spend less so that I can build up enough capital to be financially free in 10-15 years so that I can ultimately choose how I spend my time.

I still need to work on the specificity and actions that will help me to realize my intentions, but I hope this little exercise helps you set some intentions and general goals this year that ultimately help you to enjoy, enlighten, and enrich your life. EnLife!

All the Best in 2018

MK